Do you really want to give your other half a sensual massage but you don’t know how to go about it and / or are you afraid of doing wrong? Relax and follow our tips for mastering the art of relaxation.
1) A GOOD SENSUAL MASSAGE WITH… OIL!
Let’s talk little, let’s talk well: oil is a precious ally when it comes to massage . First of all because it is an ideal texture which makes it possible to fluidify the movements of the hands and increase the feelings of well-being in the person being massaged. In addition, the effects can be varied depending on the chosen oil and its properties.
A- Massage oil
With its delicious fragrance and nourishing benefits, massage oil is ideal for relaxing your partner. To avoid the too “greasy” aspect which does not please everyone, we opt for a dry oil.
B- essential oil
It is an excellent idea to spice up a sensual massage (except for pregnant or breastfeeding women, to whom it is not recommended and whose particular treatment requires medical advice). We dilute a few drops in an organic vegetable oil such as sweet almond oil or argan oil in order to provide more properties. We particularly recommend the soothing and stimulating Damascus rose essential oil or the calming and aphrodisiac essential oil of Sandalwood. Allergic to essential oils? Prefer organic sweet almond oil as is.
2) A SENSUAL MASSAGE WITH MUSIC
Many studies have shown that music has benefits on relaxation and stress reduction. She will be your friend to promote this moment of sensuality and sharing. So prepare a romantic playlist in advance.
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3) THE SECRET OF SENSUAL MASSAGE: THE ATMOSPHERE
In addition to the music, we create an atmosphere conducive to relaxation thanks to a subdued light and a few candles (well placed to avoid the fire!). We turn off our laptop, tablet and other devices that may disturb us at the slightest notification.
4) ATTENTION, THE KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL SENSUAL MASSAGE
Explore various areas of your partner’s body and observe how your other half reacts. Vary the pressures and movements to identify the gestures to which your partner is most sensitive. A tip: don’t forget the skull with a good scalp massage .
5) AND ABOVE ALL … PUT YOUR HEART INTO IT
Most important ? Play the game and be full in your sensual massage. Ideally, it should last 30 minutes to provide a real moment of relaxation and well-being. You don’t have to do it just to please your other half if you don’t feel like it or are not relaxed yourself. Remember: it’s the intention that counts.
Let yourself be tempted by the reciprocal massage
Massage is a way to spice up your married life. Indeed, massaging can awaken the senses, pleasure and especially exchange. There are many massage techniques. Some are practiced with oil, which helps to strengthen the aphrodisiac aspect, especially the oils have a bewitching scent or if they are edible. However, not everyone knows how to massage. If this is your case, you can still learn the basics of certain techniques such as reciprocal massage from specialized institutes.
What is reciprocal massage?
Reciprocal massage is a shared message that features two subjects: the masseur and the massé. The goal is to stimulate and be stimulated. To take turns massaging. From this perspective, it is interesting to learn the different techniques in order to know which areas are more sensitive and more able to excite the senses.
The Szen institute offers training called Exquise Sensation, which will allow you to learn reciprocal massage in Paris. This training is an introduction to erotic and sensual massages, which will also be suitable for followers of naturist massage.
To enhance your massage
As I said a little above, massages can be embellished with oil or other erotic cosmetics, some of which are edible. Indeed, some oils are quite edible and are flavored with gourmet and sweet notes, which increases cravings tenfold;). The goal is to stimulate senses other than touch. And this in order to awaken the sexual appetite. Massages can also be practiced with small accessories such as feathers/feathers. And this always with a view to stimulation.
Training in reciprocal massage is a very good idea. This allows one to experience another facet of sensuality and to stir up desire within the couple.